Destroying!!

[Goodgirl]

Taking ur partner's love f or granted..

At one point the partner would also be tired and it will end up in heartbreak..

Relationship confirm aagara vara
Too much attention kudupom, time kudupom, adjust panvom, but at one point, ivangaluku naama than naama matum than, namma ena panalum she/he will always love us apdingara oru time la , anbai alatchiyapaduthuvanga.. thats when the real problem arises..


I recently come across a neeya nana show video, in which the girl said "before marriage nan enga kooptalum sapda varuvan, ipo pidikala soldran"

That guy's reply shocked me,
He said "munadi impress pandrathukaga senjen sir, pidikala nu solala, ipo impress panna avasiyamila, adhaan kalyanam aagiruchey"

This is the real problem..

U be urself and fall on love, love pani, nalla impress panitu once kidaicha aparam ipdi oru mentality, is not healthy.. thats a red signal..

 

[Goodgirl]

Taking ur partner for granted.

Wow exactly dear.. true

 

[RajNi]

Taking ur partner's love f or granted..

At one point the partner would also be tired and it will end up in heartbreak..

Relationship confirm aagara vara
Too much attention kudupom, time kudupom, adjust panvom, but at one point, ivangaluku naama than naama amtum than, namma ena panalum she/he will always love us apdingara oru time la , anbai alatchiyapaduthuvanga.. thats when the real problem arises..


I recently come across a neeya nana show video, in which the girl said "before marriage nan enga kooptalum sapda varuvan, ipo pidikala soldran"

That guy's reply shocked me,
He said "munadi impress pandrathukaga senjen sir, pidikala nu solala, ipo impress panna avasiyamila, adhaan kalyanam aagiruchey"

This is the real problem..

U be urself and fall on love, love pani, malla impress panitu once kidaicha aparam ipdi oru mentality, is not healthy.. thats a red signal..

True sis.. Also namma partner oda nalladhuku panren or avangaluku idhu mattum than pidikum nu nenachtu few people would be over protective, take decisions for them and not even allow her/him to be independent even in small matters. Oru stage la care nala namma panra sila vishayame overboard agi verupagi moochu mutradhuku chances iruku.. so giving him/her own space and setting healthy boundaries is also necessary.

 

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I agree to all the answers above. Adding a few more to the thread :

1. Lack of communication & attention

Enathan oru manushan busy ah irunthalum, it takes only one or two minutes of your time to text and check on your partner.

Athuvei if your partner is by your side, phone and laptop nonduruthu konja neram break eduthutu have a conversation with your partner

 

[MASK]

Taking ur partner's love f or granted..

At one point the partner would also be tired and it will end up in heartbreak..

Relationship confirm aagara vara
Too much attention kudupom, time kudupom, adjust panvom, but at one point, ivangaluku naama than naama matum than, namma ena panalum she/he will always love us apdingara oru time la , anbai alatchiyapaduthuvanga.. thats when the real problem arises..


I recently come across a neeya nana show video, in which the girl said "before marriage nan enga kooptalum sapda varuvan, ipo pidikala soldran"

That guy's reply shocked me,
He said "munadi impress pandrathukaga senjen sir, pidikala nu solala, ipo impress panna avasiyamila, adhaan kalyanam aagiruchey"

This is the real problem..

U be urself and fall on love, love pani, nalla impress panitu once kidaicha aparam ipdi oru mentality, is not healthy.. thats a red signal..

 

[Agnii]

U be urself and fall on love, love pani, nalla impress panitu once kidaicha aparam ipdi oru mentality, is not healthy.. thats a red signal..

"Kalyanathukku munnadi naa sonna idathukku ellam vandhaan, ippo varadhu illa" nu soldradhunaala, Take it for granted nu kandippa artham kedaiyaadhu.

Avan love pannumpodhum being himself dhan, marriage ku apram andha places vendaamnu soldradhum being himself dhan.

Inga understand pannika vendiyadhu enna na, he is on a different level of needs. Saapatukku vazhi illadhavan adutha velai saapadu pathi mattumdhan yosippan, enna Car vangalaamnu yosikka mattan. Adhey aalu konja naalula periya panakkaran aagita, oru client meeting kaga Lunch skip pannitu kuda polaam. Appo Namma solluvoma? Ivanukku saapadu easy ya kedaikkudhu nu he is taking it for granted. Munnadilaam soru soru nu alainjaan, ippo soru irundhaalum kandukkama odraanu?

Maslow's hierarchy of needs la Food,Shelter, clothing madiri Love also a need. When we get love in abundance, we tend to focus on other things. Lunch skip pannitu oduna avaru, thirumba vandhu saapitu dhan aaganum... Adhupola dhan... Love illama irukka mudiyaadhu, at the same time eppovume Love Love num irukka mudiyaadhu...

 

[Ohmylove]

Taking ur partner's love f or granted..

At one point the partner would also be tired and it will end up in heartbreak..

Relationship confirm aagara vara
Too much attention kudupom, time kudupom, adjust panvom, but at one point, ivangaluku naama than naama matum than, namma ena panalum she/he will always love us apdingara oru time la , anbai alatchiyapaduthuvanga.. thats when the real problem arises..


I recently come across a neeya nana show video, in which the girl said "before marriage nan enga kooptalum sapda varuvan, ipo pidikala soldran"

That guy's reply shocked me,
He said "munadi impress pandrathukaga senjen sir, pidikala nu solala, ipo impress panna avasiyamila, adhaan kalyanam aagiruchey"

This is the real problem..

U be urself and fall on love, love pani, nalla impress panitu once kidaicha aparam ipdi oru mentality, is not healthy.. thats a red signal..

Superr superr not healthy than athu than maximum ah nadakumm...


Boyss correct panuraa varaikum kala viluvangaa.. Ponunga vilavaipangaa.. After tht

Vise versa .. Nama vilanumm avanga villa vaipangaaa..

 

[Ohmylove]

"Kalyanathukku munnadi naa sonna idathukku ellam vandhaan, ippo varadhu illa" nu soldradhunaala, Take it for granted nu kandippa artham kedaiyaadhu.

Avan love pannumpodhum being himself dhan, marriage ku apram andha places vendaamnu soldradhum being himself dhan.

Inga understand pannika vendiyadhu enna na, he is on a different level of needs. Saapatukku vazhi illadhavan adutha velai saapadu pathi mattumdhan yosippan, enna Car vangalaamnu yosikka mattan. Adhey aalu konja naalula periya panakkaran aagita, oru client meeting kaga Lunch skip pannitu kuda polaam. Appo Namma solluvoma? Ivanukku saapadu easy ya kedaikkudhu nu he is taking it for granted. Munnadilaam soru soru nu alainjaan, ippo soru irundhaalum kandukkama odraanu?

Maslow's hierarchy of needs la Food,Shelter, clothing madiri Love also a need. When we get love in abundance, we tend to focus on other things. Lunch skip pannitu oduna avaru, thirumba vandhu saapitu dhan aaganum... Adhupola dhan... Love illama irukka mudiyaadhu, at the same time eppovume Love Love num irukka mudiyaadhu...

I accept tht... Because love oda perspective vera mathri ahum every year... Correct panum pothu pathu pathu rasichathu.. Oru kind of love naa...


After 10 years family build up apram namala pathu oru sec sirichutu porathey oru love than..

Andha mathri maturity both side vandhutaa no pblm.

 

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Superr superr not healthy than athu than maximum ah nadakumm...


Boyss correct panuraa varaikum kala viluvangaa.. Ponunga vilavaipangaa.. After tht

Vise versa .. Nama vilanumm avanga villa vaipangaaa..

இந்த மாதிரியா?!

 

[RajNi]

"Kalyanathukku munnadi naa sonna idathukku ellam vandhaan, ippo varadhu illa" nu soldradhunaala, Take it for granted nu kandippa artham kedaiyaadhu.

Avan love pannumpodhum being himself dhan, marriage ku apram andha places vendaamnu soldradhum being himself dhan.

Inga understand pannika vendiyadhu enna na, he is on a different level of needs. Saapatukku vazhi illadhavan adutha velai saapadu pathi mattumdhan yosippan, enna Car vangalaamnu yosikka mattan. Adhey aalu konja naalula periya panakkaran aagita, oru client meeting kaga Lunch skip pannitu kuda polaam. Appo Namma solluvoma? Ivanukku saapadu easy ya kedaikkudhu nu he is taking it for granted. Munnadilaam soru soru nu alainjaan, ippo soru irundhaalum kandukkama odraanu?

Maslow's hierarchy of needs la Food,Shelter, clothing madiri Love also a need. When we get love in abundance, we tend to focus on other things. Lunch skip pannitu oduna avaru, thirumba vandhu saapitu dhan aaganum... Adhupola dhan... Love illama irukka mudiyaadhu, at the same time eppovume Love Love num irukka mudiyaadhu...

Love panrapo he was not being himself in the given scenario..he accepted that he did that in order to impress her.. yaro orutharoda ponna impress panradhuku avar pota effort thannoda wife aana aprm avanga aasaiya consider panradhuku andha effort podala adhan reality. Kootitu poradhu pogadhadhu is not a matter adhuku avar kodukra reason valid ah illaya nu than namma pakanum.. indha place la than communication plays important role. Unmaila work iruku na he is having the responsibility to make his partner understand about his work nature and discuss on how they should plan their outings and personal time fruitful.. adha vitutu iva en wife agita so avala na kootitu polanum onnum pblm illa she loves me anyways nu nenaikradhu avanga love ah taken for granted ah eduthukradhu illaya?

 

[Agnii]

indha place la than communication plays important role. Unmaila work iruku na he is having the responsibility to make his partner understand about his work nature and discuss on how they should plan their outings and personal time fruitful..

Yes, i agree on this. Marriage ku apram abrupt ah varra behavioural changes accept pannika mudiyadhu... For example indha paiyyan soldradhu, ippodhan kalyanam aagiruche innum yen impress panna try pannanumnu sollumpodhu, appo andha ponnuku thonum, so kalyanam aagita adhellam pannakudaadha nu...

Ennai ketta, idhu phases of life nu dhan solluven... Parents kuda irukkumpodhu or hostel Life la irundha madiri or friends kuda irukappo irundha madiri oru paiyyan Nala, marriage ku apram irukkaradhu kashtam... more responsibilities, many things to taken care of... I agree, it is applicable for girls too...

So indha time andha ponnu restaurant nu soldrappo, adhu romba expensive ah thonalaam, or andha full week work pannadhunala, weekend rest edukalaamnu thonalaam, namakku kalyanam aagiduchu indha madiri frequent selavu pannama, invest pannalaamnu yosikalaam... Indha madiri neraiyya... oru few years ku apram, kids vandhutangana, ippo avanga spend pandra time kuda kedaikkadhu... adhuvum, a phase of life dhan...

Idhu ellame rendu perum ukkandhu pesinaa dhan enna cause nu identify panni, oruthara oruthar understand pannitu life ah sandhoshama lead panna mudiyum... otherwise, edho onnu miss pandra thonittey irukkum, life-um poikittey irukkum

 

[Goodgirl]

"Kalyanathukku munnadi naa sonna idathukku ellam vandhaan, ippo varadhu illa" nu soldradhunaala, Take it for granted nu kandippa artham kedaiyaadhu.

Avan love pannumpodhum being himself dhan, marriage ku apram andha places vendaamnu soldradhum being himself dhan.

Inga understand pannika vendiyadhu enna na, he is on a different level of needs. Saapatukku vazhi illadhavan adutha velai saapadu pathi mattumdhan yosippan, enna Car vangalaamnu yosikka mattan. Adhey aalu konja naalula periya panakkaran aagita, oru client meeting kaga Lunch skip pannitu kuda polaam. Appo Namma solluvoma? Ivanukku saapadu easy ya kedaikkudhu nu he is taking it for granted. Munnadilaam soru soru nu alainjaan, ippo soru irundhaalum kandukkama odraanu?

Maslow's hierarchy of needs la Food,Shelter, clothing madiri Love also a need. When we get love in abundance, we tend to focus on other things. Lunch skip pannitu oduna avaru, thirumba vandhu saapitu dhan aaganum... Adhupola dhan... Love illama irukka mudiyaadhu, at the same time eppovume Love Love num irukka mudiyaadhu...

But avan adhukaga avoid panen solala, nee antha point ah padichila, adutha point ah padikalaya

Impress pandrathukaga sapten, ipo Impress pana thevayila, athan kalayanam paniten la apdinu avan soldran..
.itha nee enna karanam sonnalum ennala right nu accept panika mudiyathu..

Kalyanathuku munadi love ah express panna rose kuduthu irupan la, adhula ethana Peru after marriage um rose kudukaran ninaikara??

Nee soldra food cloth shelter need alavu yosika venda, Rose five rupees thaan..

Giels and boys rendu per la umey Ethana peru after marriage um msg la i love u soldranga avanga spouse kunu ninaikara?? Nan girls ku favour ah intha topic kondu pogala.. example ku soldrapa oru girl oda example than niyabagam vanthathu adha naala soldren..

 

[Goodgirl]

Exactly dear this is what my point is

Love panrapo he was not being himself in the given scenario..he accepted that he did that in order to impress her.. yaro orutharoda ponna impress panradhuku avar pota effort thannoda wife aana aprm avanga aasaiya consider panradhuku andha effort podala adhan reality. Kootitu poradhu pogadhadhu is not a matter adhuku avar kodukra reason valid ah illaya nu than namma pakanum.. indha place la than communication plays important role. Unmaila work iruku na he is having the responsibility to make his partner understand about his work nature and discuss on how they should plan their outings and personal time fruitful.. adha vitutu iva en wife agita so avala na kootitu polanum onnum pblm illa she loves me anyways nu nenaikradhu avanga love ah taken for granted ah eduthukradhu illaya?

It's not about boy or girl,

Rendu peraum serthu thab.. just kalyanam aagara varai impress kaga panitu, avanga love full ah kadachathum taken for granted not fair la.. athu eldi crct aagum..

 

[Goodgirl]

I accept tht... Because love oda perspective vera mathri ahum every year... Correct panum pothu pathu pathu rasichathu.. Oru kind of love naa...


After 10 years family build up apram namala pathu oru sec sirichutu porathey oru love than..

Andha mathri maturity both side vandhutaa no pblm.

Yen maaranum??
Yen love age ku yetha mari maaranum nu nan ketkaren..

I'm not talking about money sis, kaasu selavu pandratha pathiye mattee ila..

@Agnii basic needs ku poitan..

It's not about that ..

 

[Ohmylove]

Yen maaranum??
Yen love age ku yetha mari maaranum nu nan ketkaren..

I'm not talking about money sis, kaasu selavu pandratha pathiye mattee ila..

@Agnii basic needs ku poitan..

It's not about that ..

Mattram ondery marathathu kanna

Maranum nu avasiyam ilaa.. Ana maruvangaa matrapaduvangaa... Namalum mari irupom...

All basic expectations elam avangaluku irukum ....namakum irukum... Atha full fill ahala apdikura place varum pothu change ahum ana anbu koraiumaa nu keta ilaa kandipa ila.. But nama patha andha young age la irudha andha attention irukuma na ila but athu vera form la irukum


Ethoo ularururen

 

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Mattram ondery marathathu kanna

Maranum nu avasiyam ilaa.. Ana maruvangaa matrapaduvangaa... Namalum mari irupom...

All basic expectations elam avangaluku irukum ....namakum irukum... Atha full fill ahala apdikura place varum pothu change ahum ana anbu koraiumaa nu keta ilaa kandipa ila.. But nama patha andha young age la irudha andha attention irukuma na ila but athu vera form la irukum


Ethoo ularururen

Ethoo ularururen?!!

தூங்குற நேரத்தில பதிலளிச்சா இப்படித் தான் நடக்கும்…..

 

[AramSei]

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Ellorum ellathayum sollitanga, adhula palar pazham thinnu kottaya pottavanga...
Naan kanni bachelor, enakku soldradhuku edhum illa
Eppadi relationship ku jump pannalam nu dan thinking daw.

 

[Ohmylove]

Ellorum ellathayum sollitanga, adhula palar pazham thinnu kottaya pottavanga...
Naan kanni bachelor, enakku soldradhuku edhum illa
Eppadi relationship ku jump pannalam nu dan thinking daw.

Destroy panurathuku ethuku relationship soo enjoy enjoy

 

[AramSei]

Destroy panurathuku ethuku relationship soo enjoy enjoy

Kelviya marukka padinga, Reason dane enna nu kekkuranga, kenathula kuthicha dane adhoda aalam theriyum daw...
Kadaisi vara vedikka paaka vitruvinga polaye

 

[Ohmylove]

Kelviya marukka padinga, Reason dane enna nu kekkuranga, kenathula kuthicha dane adhoda aalam theriyum daw...
Kadaisi vara vedikka paala vitruvinga polaye

Oru padathulaa oruthan kinaru kitaa ninu 55 55 55 55 ambathu anju ambathu anju nu soluvanam.. Enada kennathukitaa ennitu iruka nu oruthan keppannam... Avana pudichutu thalitu 56 56 nu ennuvanam andha mathri neenga enna number nu papommmaa