Friends Circle

[Ohmylove]

Namma laam yepo meet panalaam sollunga.. plan ah poduvom... strictly only girls

Ha ha sure... Kandipa kandipa..

 

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Very true... yearly once mostly meet panrom enga gang.. im in 2 gang . College and school. Yearly once etho oru group meet paniduvom... and that will be so refreshing in our day to day life... antha josh will long last for many days

You had two gangs already. When you are going to organise your third gang meet?

 

[Aadhini]

You had two gangs already. When you are going to organise your third gang meet?

Third gang form pananumna.. inga panna thaan undu.. athan planing with oml

 

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Third gang form pananumna.. inga panna thaan undu.. athan planing with oml

Awaiting all to participate!!

 

[Meen]

Opp to me... ipdilaam kooda iruka mudiyuma nu thonuthu.. thaniya iruntha enaku paithiyam thaan pidikum.. apdi thaniya veetla iruka mudiyama than inga vanthane naan.

Real friends group ae irunthaalum.. daily company kuduka mudiyathu.. athum after marriage.. once in a while thaan possible..

Yes i can understand. Enakku friends kooda pesrathu pidikaathu nu elaam Ila. I like n enjoy the fun but i get tired too. Epo veetuku povom nu thonum. Enaku better ah explain pana therila.
And i am more comfortable online and inga vara reason um athaan, coz enaku epo entha second naalum i can just look away or close the chat/forum n be alone, n inga iruka friends won’t mind or don’t even notice. Ithu real la kashtam.

 

[Ohmylove]

Yes i can understand. Enakku friends kooda pesrathu pidikaathu nu elaam Ila. I like n enjoy the fun but i get tired too. Epo veetuku povom nu thonum. Enaku better ah explain pana therila.
And i am more comfortable online and inga vara reason um athaan, coz enaku epo entha second naalum i can just look away or close the chat/forum n be alone, n inga iruka friends won’t mind or don’t even notice. Ithu real la kashtam.

Ha ha don't worry I m also your catergory.. Catergory kuratha vida andha mari mariduvom.. .. We are not introverts.. V have responsibility.. Konjam neram ninalum.. Time pathathu here not like that nan en kondayaa potu kitu.. Munjilaaa multani matti pusitimu dosaya uthitu.. Sirichutu irupen.. Friends means apdi elam pana mudiyathu .. Apram mukiyaamaa ena pesurom nu veetula periyava kita solanum lol .. Nerya complications for girls... Especially girls gents ku ithu elam ila

 

[Ohmylove]

Friends elam vachukitu sandhosama irudhu oru china mistake ethavathu like organization panala.. Or dress wash or panalaa na kuda... Etho pala velaila marandhu irupom ana

Tannangg nu question varum

Arattaa adikaa neram iruku itha pana neram iliyaa nu

Ithu thevyaaa namaku Nu irukum.. So to avoid.. Tht and nama friends ah pathi ethavathu sona namaku kovam vera varum .. Sooo

 

[Argus]

Namma laam yepo meet panalaam sollunga.. plan ah poduvom... strictly only girls

Ada paavame humkum sivagami @Aadhini idhellam overuuu

 

[Argus]

Awaiting all to participate!!

Yes மச்சா @MASK அப்டி சொல்லு

 

[Argus]

Ha ha don't worry I m also your catergory.. Catergory kuratha vida andha mari mariduvom.. .. We are not introverts.. V have responsibility.. Konjam neram ninalum.. Time pathathu here not like that nan en kondayaa potu kitu.. Munjilaaa multani matti pusitimu dosaya uthitu.. Sirichutu irupen.. Friends means apdi elam pana mudiyathu .. Apram mukiyaamaa ena pesurom nu veetula periyava kita solanum lol .. Nerya complications for girls... Especially girls gents ku ithu elam ila

Oii @Ohmylove engalaiyu கேள்வி kaypaangale kaalai lendhu raathiri varai enathan cell vechitu nonditu irukka nu therila nu we are also facing the same hurdles like girls.... இதுல, aangal pengalnu paarabatchame kidaiyaadhu.... Adhuvum, kalyanam aagatha ennamaari aangalnah remba kashtam..... ஒரு nimisham cell eduthu யாராச்சும் அந்த tym ல chat varenu சொல்லிருப்பாங்க anga log in panni avanga nick பாக்கற varaikum usuru poi usuru varum.... Humkum.... என்னமோ nokku மட்டும் than discrepancies irukara மாறி solra dishyum..... Naanga, boys also facing much kashtam in just pesifying to our friends that too (girl besties)

 

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என்ன கேட்டா friend eh வேண்டாம்னு சொல்லுவேன்.

எனக்கு ஒரு friend கூட இல்லை. நான் மட்டும்தான் எனக்கு. Family members கூட அப்பப்போ holiday trips க்கு , restaurant போறதுக்கு, rare ah shopping க்கு மட்டும் சேர்ந்துக்குவேன்.

தனியா போவேன் எங்க போனாலும். Shopping, book fair, bike ride, picnic எல்லாமே தனியா போவேன்(google location parents க்கு share ஆகும் always)

தனிமை ஒரு சுகம். Netflix , Xbox , mobile, pc, room, books, note pen, garden, youtube, இதுதான் என் உலகம்.

School days la புலிக்குட்டி ஒன்னு இருந்துச்சு என்கூட. நாங்க நல்ல friends. Few days தான். அது பேரு suresh kumar. நான்தான் பேர் வச்சேன். அனுமதி இல்லன்னு பிரிச்சிட்டாங்க எங்கள. அதே பேர்ல ஒரு பொம்மைப் புலி வாங்கி room la வச்சிருக்கேன். மனிதர்களுடன் set ஆகறதில்ல எனக்கு.

இங்கதான் chat la முகம் தெரியாத friends. இவ்ளோ பேசறேன்.

It depends their individuals…

 

[RajNi]

Is it better to have a small group of close friends or a large group of acquaintances?

It purely differs from person to person.. it is easy to have large group of acquaintances and have fun.. just edhadhu oru vishayam common ah iruntha podhum periya gang eh form agidum... I have a large number of acquaintances who knows only the fun side of me.. I enjoy when we meet in person or over conference calls.. At the same time I have very few close friends who knew me inside out.. Having both kinds has its own benefits. There is nothing to compare which is better. I easily flip between my extrovert side who craves fun and introvert side who needs privacy& finds comfort in small circle or solitude. so namma mood poruthu edhu better nu andha situation ku mudivu panikalam...

 

[RajNi]

I am most comfortable when am alone by myself. Oru maari relaxed ah irukum. Acquaintances or Friends oru maari energy drain aagum, neraya ena pesrathu enna yosikranga, enna nenaikraanga nu etc.

i totally get u..

 

[Agnii]

I easily flip between my extrovert side who craves fun and introvert side who needs privacy& finds comfort

 

[Goodgirl]

Acquaintance is always a temporary form of friendship.. namma elarukumey chat la ipdi naraiya per irupanga.. but
Namakunu family mathiri oru kutty group irukumm anga ena vena solalam.. they wont judge us and will always be there for us .. namma santhosham matum ila sogamum pangu potupanga..

Apdi amairadhu rare.. amanjaa okay..
Apdi amayaadha batchathil thanimaila irukarathey better..
Amanjum sometimes peace of mind spoil aahum batchathil good to have acquaintances rathen than with group of people who give u hard time..

Ellam ella neramum sariyaa amaiyaadhu,
Frnds ah irunthu prachana vanthalum ennala atha balance panika mudium nu ninaikaravanga evlo frnds vena vechikalam..!!

Quantity doesn't matter
Quality matters the most..

 

[Balan72]

I am most comfortable when am alone by myself. Oru maari relaxed ah irukum. Acquaintances or Friends oru maari energy drain aagum

Exactly.Energy drain is the word. I felt suffocating at gtgs. This time I m gonna sleep whole day or some unfinished book. Would you classify yourself as an introvert?

 

[Aadhini]

Friends elam vachukitu sandhosama irudhu oru china mistake ethavathu like organization panala.. Or dress wash or panalaa na kuda... Etho pala velaila marandhu irupom ana

Tannangg nu question varum

Arattaa adikaa neram iruku itha pana neram iliyaa nu

Ithu thevyaaa namaku Nu irukum.. So to avoid.. Tht and nama friends ah pathi ethavathu sona namaku kovam vera varum .. Sooo

I never faced these questions... aana oru vela sonnangana.. kandipa aniku sanda thaan.. neenga frnds ah paaka pona inikum.. na pona mattum ungaluku kasakuma nu keturuven .

Apram mukiyaamaa ena pesurom nu veetula periyava kita solanum lol .. Nerya complications for girls... Especially girls gents ku ithu elam ila

enna ellam opp ah irukaanga... na laam frnds GTG b4 one month after one month.. atha pathi athigama pesuven . Ella kadhayum solven.. enga veetla ivar kindal panitae irupaaru.. iva innum rendu maasathuku ithaye pesi kolvaalae nu solvaanga . Top to bottom ellathayum sollanum nu na ninaipen.. aana mulusa keka thaan aal illa enga veetla laaam...

 

[Aadhini]

Epo veetuku povom nu thonum. Enaku better ah explain pana therila.

Hmm... enaku laam ayooo veetuku ponuma nu thonum .

And i am more comfortable online and inga vara reason um athaan, coz enaku epo entha second naalum i can just look away or close the chat/forum n be alone, n inga iruka friends won’t mind or don’t even notice. Ithu real la kashtam.

Im more comfortable in real than online.. thaniya iruka pidikaama vanthathu thaan online..

Enaku aacharyama iruku neenga, oml, nila, balan solrathulaam kekurathuku.. .

 

[Aadhini]

Exactly.Energy drain is the word. I felt suffocating at gtgs. This time I m gonna sleep whole day or some unfinished book. Would you classify yourself as an introvert?

Energy drain ah . Enakulaam frnds are the energy boosters

 

[Balan72]

Energy drain ah . Enakulaam frnds are the energy boosters

We are talking about the same phenomenon. There can't be a gain without someone loosing. its a two person zero sum game. Introverts loose energy and outspoken absorb energy. As simple as that.