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Idhu Love eh illa... Edho trophy win pannita madiri, next day la irundhu silent agita, this is entirely a different case.She accepted ur love one day, next day u change na eppadi???
Precisely my point about 'acceptance'. Neraiyya vishayangal sollamaley purinjikkanum oruthara oruthar. Apodhan relationship healthy ya irukum. If you are made to explain and reason out many of your actions on a regular basis, there would be a point where you get stressed out. Edho breathing space ah illadha madiri aagidum. Nethu night yen MSG pannala, explain Pannu... Call yen edukkala, yen Munna madiri illa? Ippadiyellam kelvi kettute irukkaradha vida, andha person apdiyellam pannumpodhu, idhu ivangaloda traits appadinu accept panna aarambikkanumnu naan soldren...I need space na?? She is human too right with all emotions. You are hurt the other person.
Idhellam solli solli puriyavaikaradhukulla andha relationship andharathilla thongidum... Adhuku aparam polambi enna panradhu...
Be constant don't change that's what everyone expects.
I completely disagree on this. Change is inevitable. You like it or not, everyone changes. Neengale retrospect panni paarunga, neenga 5 years munnala eppadi irundhinga? Adhey pola dhan ippovum irukkingalaa Ella vishayathilum? Naan illa, naan neraiyya change aagirkken...
Are you spending your 24 hours exactly on the same things that you were spending 3 years back/ 5 years back? If the answer is no, how can you say that you will remain the same for next 5 years?
She loved you for what you have shown her at first and how would you except her to love you back after you lost yourself.
There lies the problem. If you love someone entirely on what you see in them, high chances are there for you to be disappointed. Neenga paakradhu Tip of an iceberg dhan. Orutharukulla evvalavo vishayangal irukkum.. deep rooted values, beliefs, responsibility, goals, aspirations ippadi evvalavo irukkum... You might have spotted that person on his best of the days... "Tamasha" nu oru Bollywood movie irukku... Ranbir and Deepika... I strongly suggest you to watch it... Romba beautiful ah portray pannirpaanga Namma Inga pesara topic ah
Actually you didn't change, that's the real you which you didn't let her know you until you get closer!!!
All of us are filled with package of emotions and traits... Ellam onna dhan varum... Ungaluku pidicha part mattum thaniya eduthu, you cannot make a favourite version of your beloved one... Hypothetically apadi amainja adhu nalladhan irukkum... But life is not like that... life is tough, relationships are hard... And that's how it is