Friends Circle

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bitter truth. but idhelam thandi oru nalla friend kedaikradhu kodupinai.. sila per lam namma real life la irunthrukalam nu thonum.. But again who knows, real ah pazhagirntha intha alavu close agirpoma apdingradhu doubt than.

Yes, accepted!!

 

[Meen]

Lol, enga college Alumni meet varusha varusham nadakkum... Naan pogave matten... Naan sonna example official parties pograppo, seminars pograppo or chumma lunch time appo matha colleagues meet panni pesarappo... Idhellam unavoidable situations...

Naan romba romba selective... Acquaintances or general discussions is different... But really liking someone's company is rare... Example sollanumna, ippo irukka office la, there is only one girl I like to talk with...

Antha girl oda mind voice "ayyo vanthutaan mokka comedy ku ini sirikanume"

 

[Meen]

Real or virtual difference namma perception la thaane. Virtual ah irunthaalum ingayum elaarum real people thaane, chat gpt maari oru AI bot ilaye

Namma millennials ku pakathu veetla irukra neighbour kita kooda whatsapp or insta la thaan jaasthi pesrom. Namma real college friends vevera oor la iruntha avanga koodayum chat la thaan pesrom. And ipo gen z kids ku covid naala college mates eh online la thaan.

 

[Meen]

Hmm... enaku laam ayooo veetuku ponuma nu thonum .

Im more comfortable in real than online.. thaniya iruka pidikaama vanthathu thaan online..

Enaku aacharyama iruku neenga, oml, nila, balan solrathulaam kekurathuku.. .

haha usual ungala maari social ah irukravanga engala maari anti-social ah irukravanga kooda pesa mateenga. ipo vera vali ilaama pesitu irukeenga

 

[Meen]

Exactly.Energy drain is the word. I felt suffocating at gtgs. This time I m gonna sleep whole day or some unfinished book. Would you classify yourself as an introvert?

I dont know if am an introvert. Introverts usually choose to be private and @Rajini sona maathuri they can flip and cope and be social when it is needed or if they feel the need. I think they are called ambiverts, and avanga actually are very high achieving.

Enakku I absolutely cannot even cope, constant ah it will keep bothering me. Athunaalaye normal conversation eh pana mudiyaathu. So it is not actually a choice for me. Sometimes like Aadhini maari enakum periya group of friends, time porathe theriaama irukanum nu elaam aasaya irukum, but I cannot do it.

 

[Balan72]

I dont know if am an introvert. Introverts usually choose to be private and @Rajini sona maathuri they can flip and cope and be social when it is needed or if they feel the need. I think they are called ambiverts, and avanga actually are very high achieving.

Enakku I absolutely cannot even cope, constant ah it will keep bothering me. Athunaalaye normal conversation eh pana mudiyaathu. So it is not actually a choice for me. Sometimes like Aadhini maari enakum periya group of friends, time porathe theriaama irukanum nu elaam aasaya irukum, but I cannot do it.

I understand ma.

 

[Meen]

Idhukkey ippadina? Lunch break appo, canteen polaamnu elundha, main door kitta group ah ninnu pesittu iruppanunga... Kaduppa irukkum... Fire exit vazhiya laam eranggi poirukken

work from home ku 3 days choose pana sonaanga, naa fri sat sun nu sonen so that no one will be there in office those days

 

[Balan72]

work from home ku 3 days choose pana sonaanga, naa fri sat sun nu sonen so that no one will be there in office those days

Neenga enna vida konjam advanced thaan maa.

 

[Ohmylove]

work from home ku 3 days choose pana sonaanga, naa fri sat sun nu sonen so that no one will be there in office those days

Brilliant... Ana ungala vida oruthar irukaruu..

Ofc ah athu elam vara mudiyathu.. Apdi varanum na nan resign panikuren...

peak of the confidence level

 

[Meen]

Brilliant... Ana ungala vida oruthar irukaruu..

Ofc ah athu elam vara mudiyathu.. Apdi varanum na nan resign panikuren...

peak of the confidence level

veetla neraya vela kudunga aprom paarunga,epo da monday varum nu irupaanga

 

[AramSei]

Is it better to have a small group of close friends or a large group of acquaintances?

a small group of close friends

 

[Ohmylove]

@sita vela elam kudukala pulayaa alavitachu vedika pothom....Athukum vera vali pani.. Work station aye potatchu


Thanimaiyaae santhi!! Santhii

 

[RajNi]

sometimes like Aadhini maari enakum periya group of friends, time porathe theriaama irukanum nu elaam aasaya irukum, but I cannot do it.

exactly.. aasai irukum aana try pana uncomfortable ah irukum.. odd man out feeling varum

 

[Ohmylove]

@RajNi @sita @Ohmylove

Nama moonu perum onnu Gandhi porandhaa mannu.. !!

exactly.. aasai irukum aana try pana uncomfortable ah irukum.. odd man out feeling varum

 

[Agnii]

Antha girl oda mind voice "ayyo vanthutaan mokka comedy ku ini sirikanume"

Ava ennaiya pesa vitta dhane adhu nadakkum

 

[Balan72]

@RajNi @sita @Ohmylove

Nama moonu perum onnu Gandhi porandhaa mannu.. !!

சத்தமில்லாம நாஸூக்கா என்னை கழட்டி விட்டுட்டீங்க @Ohmylove உங்க திருக்கூட்டத்துலர்ந்து.

 

[Balan72]

Fire exit vazhiya laam eranggi poirukken

லாம் இல்ல. அது வழியா தான் போறது பார்க்கிங் பேஸ்மெண்ட்க்கு. யார் கண்ல்யும் படாம அப்டியே ஓடிறலாம்னு.
But when it comes to official meetings, I m effortless and kinda flamboyant with all the figures and analytics mounted in my mind. தங்கு தடையில்லாம பேச வரும். ஹைரார்க்கில எவ்ளோ பெரிய ஆள் உக்காந்திருந்தாலும். I don’t know what is this phenomenon

 

[Balan72]

true.. mostly no judgements in virtual.. namma pathi ena nenaipanga nu kavala varadhu until we reveal our identity...

Bang on the point .

 

[Ohmylove]

Enaku theriji inga varavanagaa elam yarum avangaala.. Color.. Age.. Apperence.. Money ...status... Job...Nu ethumayy judgement panama.. Friendly ah ethoo oru attention seeking ku attraction kaga thana varanga...

@Balan72 sir enaku bang on point nu solunga

 

[Balan72]

Enaku theriji inga varavanagaa elam yarum avangaala.. Color.. Age.. Apperence.. Money ...status... Job...Nu ethumayy judgement panama.. Friendly ah ethoo oru attention seeking ku attraction kaga thana varanga.

Bingo again.
But attention seeking….don’t know. Yosikkanum.
To attract.. without color age or appearance, without status. Yes.