On behalf of
@Goodie, (only because Goodie isnt here and
@Nilaa wait pana koodathu nu) I will ask the first question
To
@Nilaa
Hypothetical situation,
Neenga pothuva oru forgiving person, unga life la you had seen betrayal many times and yet you have given them chance, and apidi chance kuduthavanga sila per they have regained your trust as well.
Now, unga close friend oda wedding la irukeenga, unga friend ku rombo naal kalichu elaa plans um correct ah amaiyuthu, and she is so excited and happy to start her life. Unga friend and avanga family rombo obstacles (financial, emotional, etc) elaam thaandi intha kalyaanam nadakuthu.
Now on this important day, you see her, rendu perum rombo happy and mukiyama intha important day la neenga anga irukrathu unga friend ku rombo happy. Apo thaan neenga antha maapilai ah paakreenga. He is one of the person from your past, who has cheated you, betrayed your trust, avangala neenga forgive paninaalum he didnt come back to you coz avar ungala important ah nenaikala. Now he is standing there, and you have 1 hour before the wedding happens, elaarum vanthutaanga.
If you tell your friend about him, the way he cheated, the wedding will stop, spoiling the dreams of your friend, ruining her life and her family's name. Unga friend may be maniklaam avana thinking it is past, but cheat paninathu ungala nu therinja she will never forgive him and definitely want to cancel the wedding even if it means she cannot ever marry again.
If you dont tell your friend about him, the wedding will go on, your friend will be very happy, her family will be happy, everything will go smoothly.
But for how long? There is a good chance he might still cheat your friend after marriage.
Would you say or not say?
