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Why husbands are always easy going while wives are short tempered ???

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அப்டிங்குற....!!! @Nilaa வைட்டூ இனி என் கோவத்தை நீ paarpa....!!!



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Haha 🤣🤣...
But actually what would be nice is both husband and Wife should be easy going at times and short tempered at times... Oruthanga kovama irukapo the other person should be calm ipdi irundha nala irkum❤️
 

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The stereotype of the easy-going husband and the short-tempered wife is a common one. But is there any truth to it? While it's important to remember that every relationship is different, there are a few reasons why this stereotype may exist.

Social conditioning

From a young age, boys and girls are often socialized differently. Boys are often taught to be more assertive and to suppress their emotions, while girls are often taught to be more nurturing and to express their emotions openly. This can lead to men being more likely to bottle up their emotions, while women are more likely to let them out.

Hormonal differences


Hormones can also play a role in mood swings and irritability. Women experience hormonal changes throughout their menstrual cycles, pregnancy, and menopause. These hormonal changes can make women more likely to feel emotional and irritable.

Mental load
The mental load refers to the cognitive work of managing a household and family. This includes tasks like planning meals, scheduling appointments, and keeping track of everyone's needs. Women are often disproportionately responsible for the mental load, which can lead to stress and overwhelm.
Gender roles

Traditional gender roles often place more expectations on women than on men. Women are often expected to be the primary caregivers for children and the elderly, as well as to maintain a clean and organized home. This can be a lot of pressure to handle, and it can lead to feelings of resentment and frustration.

Lack of support


Women often lack the support they need from their partners and from society as a whole. This can make it difficult for them to cope with the stress and demands of their lives, and it can lead to feelings of anger and frustration.

In addition to the above factors, there are a few other possible explanations for why husbands are sometimes perceived as being more easy-going than wives.
  • Men may be more likely to withdraw when they are feeling stressed or upset.
  • This can be seen as a sign of being easy-going, but it can also be a way of avoiding conflict or emotional intimacy.
  • Women may be more likely to express their emotions openly, even if they are negative emotions.
  • This can make them seem more short-tempered, even if they are not actually more angry than their male partners.
  • Society may have a tendency to view men as being more rational and level-headed than women.
  • This can lead to women's anger being dismissed or seen as irrational, even when it is justified.
It's important to note that these are just generalizations, and there are many couples who challenge these stereotypes. However, the factors mentioned above can help to explain why the stereotype of the easy-going husband and the short-tempered wife may exist.

If you are in a relationship where you feel like you are constantly getting angry and your partner is always easy going, it's important to communicate with them about how you're feeling. It's also important to make sure that you are getting the support you need, both from your partner and from other sources. If you are struggling to cope with your anger or frustration, talking to a therapist or counselor can be helpful.
So what according to you makes women short tempered than men???
Such stereotyping is complete nonsense. You know that .
 

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Such stereotyping is complete nonsense. You know that .
Yes I know that .still we need replies to get a half century in a thread! So here we go! Only #3 more to go!
 

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Men become idiot only coz of a women
If men became idiots becoz of women, god forbid , women would have long become extinct if they hadnt been strong enough to tolerate men 's idiosyncracy.
 
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