I have a doubt

[Nilaa]

Poetic ah sollanumna, oru bird ah ungalukku pidicha, adhu parakkaradha dhan rasikkanum. Kayyila pidichu or cage la adaichu Namma kudave vechukkanumnu ne

Agree with this. It is unconditional. But to be honest, possible not

 

[Agnii]

Possessiveness இல்லாம இருக்குமா.
Love nu friendship nu இல்ல. In any relationship. I like a kid .. but he wants to play with another one . Possessiveness வரும்ல

you can possess only objects and never a person.

 

[Agnii]

Agree with this. It is unconditional. But to be honest, possible not

Just imagine a scenario... Rendu perum love pandraanga, they truly have feelings for each other. Ippo andha ponnu vera oruthar (let's say X) kuda pesara, let's say they have a common interest and andha ponnuku X kuda pesradhu pidikudhu. Now what she should do? Everytime when she wants to talk with X, should she think about her lover?

And indha vishayam andha paiyyanukku theriya varappo, Avan enna pannanum? Ivalukku nammakuda pesaradhu vida X kuda pesa dhan pidichirukku, love poiduchunu nenaikkanuma?

Appadi Avan nenaicha andha ponnu enna feel pannuva? I really have feelings for him, but ennai ivan understand pannikittadhu ivlodhaana nu thonum...

I can talk about this chain for long, but let me tell you it will be a complex maze this is what possessiveness will bring to the table. It is bad, avlodhan

 

[Nilaa]

you can possess only objects and never a person.

Something you edited ah

 

[Nilaa]

Just imagine a scenario... Rendu perum love pandraanga, they truly have feelings for each other. Ippo andha ponnu vera oruthar (let's say X) kuda pesara, let's say they have a common interest and andha ponnuku X kuda pesradhu pidikudhu. Now what she should do? Everytime when she wants to talk with X, should she think about her lover?

And indha vishayam andha paiyyanukku theriya varappo, Avan enna pannanum? Ivalukku nammakuda pesaradhu vida X kuda pesa dhan pidichirukku, love poiduchunu nenaikkanuma?

Appadi Avan nenaicha andha ponnu enna feel pannuva? I really have feelings for him, but ennai ivan understand pannikittadhu ivlodhaana nu thonum...

I can talk about this chain for long, but let me tell you it will be a complex maze this is what possessiveness will bring to the table. It is bad, avlodhan

இப்போ மட்டும் புரியுதே

 

[Agnii]

Something you edited ah

Yes

 

[Agnii]

இப்போ மட்டும் புரியுதே

Unakku neraiyya vishayangal naan explain pandrappo puriyum polirukke... Many times I got this feel

 

[Agnii]

இப்போ மட்டும் புரியுதே

Blunt ah sollanumna, nammala vittu poiruvaangalonu sandhegam, insecurity, nammalavida innorthanga better ah kedachitangalonu or kedachirvaangalonu oru inferiority complex... Idhaiyellam poosi malupparadhudhan, enakku unmela adhigaamana love naala possessiveness vandhirukkunu soldradhellam...

Avangala pesa vidaama thadukkavo, illa avanga nenaikkaradha panna vidaama thadukkavo, we express our disappointments in the form of anger, rendu naal pesaama vidradhu idhellam... ippo sollu, idhu Healthy ya? That's why I say possessiveness is never healthy

 

[MASK]

நமக்கு ஒருத்தர பிடிக்குது. அவங்க மத்தவங்க கூட பேசறப்போ வரது,

Over affection la Angry ah Possessiveness ah or Jealous ah ? Is it healthy ?

இதெல்லாம் இல்லனு சொல்ல முடியாது. இருக்கும்.

இருவருக்குமிடையே ஒரு நல்ல புரிதலும், பரஸ்பர நம்பிக்கையும் இருந்தால், நீங்கள் சொன்ன எதுவும் தோன்ற வாய்ப்புகள் மிக குறைவு.

 

[Ohmylove]

For example

இந்த அரிசி மூட்ட @Hari 2 days ah nick parked. No reply. நானும் எத்தன முறைதான் சண்ட செய்றது.

Athu chella sandai

 

[Ohmylove]

Blunt ah sollanumna, nammala vittu poiruvaangalonu sandhegam, insecurity, nammalavida innorthanga better ah kedachitangalonu or kedachirvaangalonu oru inferiority complex... Idhaiyellam poosi malupparadhudhan, enakku unmela adhigaamana love naala possessiveness vandhirukkunu soldradhellam...

Avangala pesa vidaama thadukkavo, illa avanga nenaikkaradha panna vidaama thadukkavo, we express our disappointments in the form of anger, rendu naal pesaama vidradhu idhellam... ippo sollu, idhu Healthy ya? That's why I say possessiveness is never healthy

Athanaaeyyy padacha iraivaneyy namaalaa thadukalaa nama yaru aduthavala thadukaa.. Yarku epdi iruka pudikumoo apdi irukatum..

Ana ithula ena beauty na solura nama elam apdiya irukom ena dada thaniya Bangkok poiduvengala ena

 

[Goodie]

நமக்கு ஒருத்தர பிடிக்குது. அவங்க மத்தவங்க கூட பேசறப்போ வரது,

Over affection la Angry ah Possessiveness ah or Jealous ah ? Is it healthy ?

இதெல்லாம் இல்லனு சொல்ல முடியாது. இருக்கும்.

Konjam possessiveness, konjam jealous, over bayam enga nammala vitutu poiduvaangaloeenu!!

 

[Goodie]

Sari nee solu oruthavanga namala avoid panuranga nu vachuko nana poi again avangala thedalama ila pesalamaa??? Solu..

yen avoid panraanganu therinjikanum... u should give a try. later pesi irukalamoaenu regret panradha vida try pannitu pesalana vitudanum

 

[Goodie]

Mind inside brain is stopping .. Self respect is important..don't go nu...

But.. Mind inside heart is running behind with obsession ... and speaking... getting bulb too

Respect important ah or that obsession important ah...

Self respect is important. but give a try if you are not valued then move on. Namalukum Self respect irukula!

 

[Ohmylove]

yen avoid panraanganu therinjikanum... u should give a try. later pesi irukalamoaenu regret panradha vida try pannitu pesalana vitudanum

Tried... I think attraction marum la that's all in the game. One day again varuvanga

 

[Goodie]

In my opinion, we go through all the stages. And that's how a relationship grows. Namakku oruthara pidikkarappo, initial stages la adhigamaa pesuvom, avanga adhey alavuku pesrangalaa illaiya appadingradhu immaterial. If you expect him/her to talk to you whenever you want, i think that's where the problem starts.

Possessiveness is never healthy. Love naala dhan possessive aagrenu soldradhum wrong. Poetic ah sollanumna, oru bird ah ungalukku pidicha, adhu parakkaradha dhan rasikkanum. Kayyila pidichu or cage la adaichu Namma kudave vechukkanumnu nenaikka kudadhu

Again we are discussing the same topic

Firstla irundhae ore maariya irundhutta prechanai illa!! thideer change than kashtama irukum

 

[Goodie]

Just imagine a scenario... Rendu perum love pandraanga, they truly have feelings for each other. Ippo andha ponnu vera oruthar (let's say X) kuda pesara, let's say they have a common interest and andha ponnuku X kuda pesradhu pidikudhu. Now what she should do? Everytime when she wants to talk with X, should she think about her lover?

And indha vishayam andha paiyyanukku theriya varappo, Avan enna pannanum? Ivalukku nammakuda pesaradhu vida X kuda pesa dhan pidichirukku, love poiduchunu nenaikkanuma?

Appadi Avan nenaicha andha ponnu enna feel pannuva? I really have feelings for him, but ennai ivan understand pannikittadhu ivlodhaana nu thonum...

I can talk about this chain for long, but let me tell you it will be a complex maze this is what possessiveness will bring to the table. It is bad, avlodhan

But most girls once get committed to a boy, even if she shares common interest with other guy, she wouldn't talk to the other guy.
I dont know why but she rather spends time alone thinking of her loved one rather talking to other guy.
maybe she feels guilty inside and dont talk to anyone else and more over not interested to talk to anyone else but wait for the loved one

 

[Goodie]

Blunt ah sollanumna, nammala vittu poiruvaangalonu sandhegam, insecurity, nammalavida innorthanga better ah kedachitangalonu or kedachirvaangalonu oru inferiority complex... Idhaiyellam poosi malupparadhudhan, enakku unmela adhigaamana love naala possessiveness vandhirukkunu soldradhellam...

Avangala pesa vidaama thadukkavo, illa avanga nenaikkaradha panna vidaama thadukkavo, we express our disappointments in the form of anger, rendu naal pesaama vidradhu idhellam... ippo sollu, idhu Healthy ya? That's why I say possessiveness is never healthy

avangala pesa vidama thaduka mudiyadhu... theriyama kooda pesuvanga and then lie. thats when the trust plays the role

 

[Goodie]

Tried... I think attraction marum la that's all in the game. One day again varuvanga

Vandhaangala??

 

[Agnii]

Again we are discussing the same topic

Firstla irundhae ore maariya irundhutta prechanai illa!! thideer change than kashtama irukum

Again same badhil. Change is inevitable. (Cheating on someone or deceiving in the name of Love, avangala pathi naan pesala)