Hot Seat: Let's Get Candid

[Nilaa]

@Nilaa
Hindu succession act of 2005 padi, after the death of a father, his property goes to his children and wife.

A question from a kid, " atheppadi women mattum getting share from her father as well as her husband"

Idhuku unga pathil enna?

@Goodie

Let me tell a kuty story to that kid....

Kanna,

Oru oorla oru amma appa apram 2 kids irunthankalam.

Oru nal antha appa sami kita poitaram. Amma ku kulandhaigal vechutu thaniya iruka bayama irunthucham.. Amma padichu work panitu irunthanka. Athanala kids ku elam vaangi thanthanka...

Amma thaniya irukarathu safe ila nu thaatha paati veetuku athavathu Amma oda parents veetuku kuptu poranka anga irukalam nu ....

Aana anga already mama family irukanga. Avangluku Ivanka anga irukrathu pudikla. Vera veetuku poga solranga...

Sari inoru thaatha paati veetuku polamnu appa oda parents veetuku kuptu ponaanga... angayum avangala serthukala...

Athanala Amma kum kids kum Oru life security irukanumilla.

Women ku father and husband property irukuthunaa,

Mama velila poga solla mudiyaadhu... appa veetu relatives um velila poga sola mudiyaadhu...

Equal rights amma ku tharanum... avanga than kids ah paathukuvanga appa irunthalum ilanalum..

 

[Agnii]

Adhey madiri wife ku aprama avanga property Husband ku poguma?
Yen direct ah children ku pogudhu

 

[Nilaa]

Adhey madiri wife ku aprama avanga property Husband ku poguma?
Yen direct ah children ku pogudhu

Yen na, men wife poitangana Vera life la kuda settle avanka. Antha puthu wife vanthu kids ah chithi nu kodumai seyalam (as per law remarriage senja property kidaikadhu I think.. am not sure) ...

Sila per apdi seirathila. Wife ponalum single father ah kids pathukaranka.

Ithelam karuthula vechutu , men vida women ku responsibilities jasthe irukum nu kuda ipdi irukalam law

 

[Agnii]

Yen na, men wife poitangana Vera life la kuda settle avanka. Antha puthu wife vanthu kids ah chithi nu kodumai seyalam (as per law remarriage senja property kidaikadhu I think.. am not sure) ...

Sila per apdi seirathila. Wife ponalum single father ah kids pathukaranka.

Ithelam karuthula vechutu , men vida women ku responsibilities jasthe irukum nu kuda ipdi irukalam law

Lol, Women are clever and men are innocent

 

[Goodie]

Women are clever but men are not innocent

 

[Goodie]

@Nilaa

Neenga romba kadavul nambikkai ullavara? Neenga manam vittu vendi adhu adutha naalae nadantha vishayam edhavadhu?

 

[Agnii]

Haha, men evlo paavamnu purinjikkanumna keezhe kodukappatta thagavalgalai padikkavum,

1. His parents' assets are divided to siblings
2. Assets from wife's side can't be claimed coz he would be jailed if he try (varadhatchanai kodumai)
3. If he asks anything to wife, she will say 'apdina, sothukaaga dhan kalyanam panningala'
4. Self acquired or inherited property of wife will go to the children
5. Jewels belong to the daughter

Idhellam kuda thaangikalaam... Ellathaiyum pannitu Pennadimai thanam, It is a man's world nu appavi aanmagangal meedhu sumathha padum pazhiyai mattum thaangikolla mudiyaadhu

 

[Nilaa]

@Nilaa

Neenga romba kadavul nambikkai ullavara? Neenga manam vittu vendi adhu adutha naalae nadantha vishayam edhavadhu?

@Goodie

Yes nambikai adhikam...

Neraya apdi nadanthu iruku...

College la oru payan oru sandai la pesikala one year...

second year la exam time... that time enaku avan kuda irukanum thonuchu...

first day exam muduchutu parking varen... sudden ah vanthu pesunan... epdi eluthuna.. yen dull ah irukara ipdi... avan bike en pakathila varavumey apdi oru happy...

apram elamey avanoda sernthu padichu happy ah full ah attend senjathu... next day ketathu kidachudhu ipdi...

Neraya peroda health issues la pray seirapo avanka next day kepanka ne yethachum pray senjiya ... enaku sudden ah sari ayduchu unkita first solirukanum itha apdinu..

Kadavul nambikai or nature universe mela nambikai vechu keta kidaikum ... theist or atheist... apdinu nambarun

 

[Nilaa]

Lol, Women are clever and men are innocent

Some men are kds

 

[Agnii]

Some men are kds

Men will always be Men and they are always like,

"Naan perusa nenaikkara sothhey ennoda Appa Amma dhan"
lalala lala la la la

 

[Goodie]

Haha, men evlo paavamnu purinjikkanumna keezhe kodukappatta thagavalgalai padikkavum,

Women evaloe paavamnu purinjikka keezhe kodukapatta thagavalgalai padikkavum

1. His parents' assets are divided to siblings

Men get the most part

2. Assets from wife's side can't be claimed coz he would be jailed if he try (varadhatchanai kodumai)

As if he never tries! Jail la poduvaanganra bayam kooda illama they still torture their wives. Idhu kuduthaangala, atha kuduthaangala

3. If he asks anything to wife, she will say 'apdina, sothukaaga dhan kalyanam panningala'

Ellamae woman oda appa Amma tharanumna, aparam husband nra post edhuku? What will men do??

4. Self acquired or inherited property of wife will go to the children

Self acquired or inherited property la konjam kooda neenga enna edhu, enakunu ketka maateengala?

5. Jewels belong to the daughter

Jewels mela kooda aasai. Athan kalyanam Pannu podhey varathatchanaiya mothama vaangidureengalae!

Idhellam kuda thaangikalaam... Ellathaiyum pannitu Pennadimai thanam, It is a man's world nu appavi aanmagangal meedhu sumathha padum pazhiyai mattum thaangikolla mudiyaadhu

Ivaloe kodumaiyum pannitu, women na Kora solluvanga paarunga men. Atha panala, idha olunga pannalanu.
Women pazhi sollavae sollathula society?!

 

[Goodie]

Men will always be Men and they are always like,

"Naan perusa nenaikkara sothhey ennoda Appa Amma dhan"

Idhuvum avanga property unga Perla ezhuthi thara varaikum!!

lalala lala la la la

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[Goodie]

@Nilaa

Ungaluku vandha proposals la interesting ah nadantha oru sambavam?

 

[Nilaa]

@Nilaa

Ungaluku vandha proposals la interesting ah nadantha oru sambavam?

@Goodie

Oru proposal solalam...

En college mate oda home town avar... oru time avanka veetuku ponapo , intro kuduthu pesi friend anar... nanum media la irukar nu nalla pesunen..

oru nal suthi valachu fone la ketar yepdi ena nambi fone la pesura.... mutual friend thana nan unaku... avlo nambikaya apdi nu...

nambikai en friend mela... avar enaku thapana aala intro kuduka matar nu sonen... ipdiye anaiku jasthi pesitom ...

suppose love senja accept senjuvinkla nu ketar avlo trust iruntha nu ketaar...

Athepde seya mudiyum one year ninka enaku junior... sari varathu apdiye elam okie nalum.. ithu enoda reply... ipdiye argument anaiku... but comedy ah iruthuchu

ipo kuda dear senior nu gift varum book la signature potu ....
azhagana handwriting avaruku...

Intha vishayam en friend ku solanumnu thonavey ila ithuvarai... junior oda proposal interesting nu ninaikiren.. boring ah kuda iruklam lol

 

[Nilaa]

@Goodie

Enaku chandrastamam time ..
so nan oruthara tag senju vidrun....

After next question I tag

@Needu

 

[Agnii]

Men get the most part

Law says equal parts. Men get most part laam andha kaalam. Ipolaam neraiyya peruku awareness iruku. Ellam court case pottu sari samamaa vaangidranga

As if he never tries! Jail la poduvaanganra bayam kooda illama they still torture their wives. Idhu kuduthaangala, atha kuduthaangala

Indha concept laam vechu ippo mega serials kuda edukkaradhilla.
Husband support eh illama Canteen business vechu oru lady develop aagra alavuku avangale upgrade aagitanga

Ellamae woman oda appa Amma tharanumna, aparam husband nra post edhuku? What will men do??

Lol, appo Husband apdingaradhu posting ah? So unga karuthu padi, marriage ku apram Ella responsibilities um husband mela?

Adhey madiri, marriage ku aprama Husband veetula irundhu edhayume edhirpaaka matangala girls? Suppose, ivanga husband ah kandukkama, matha children families ah nalla gavanichukitta, summava viduvaanga?

Self acquired or inherited property la konjam kooda neenga enna edhu, enakunu ketka maateengala?

Apdi ketta dhan, 'assets kaga dhan kalyanam pannikitangalaa' nu kelvi varume

Jewels mela kooda aasai. Athan kalyanam Pannu podhey varathatchanaiya mothama vaangidureengalae!

Naa sonnadhu, oru family la son and daughter irundha, Jewels always go to the daughter. And sila families naa pathrukken, assets pirikarappo, those jewels won't be taken into account. It is jewels + 50% of other assets to the daughter

Idhu oru sentiment. It is generally viewed as a crime if the guy talk about his mother's jewels. Neengale kuda ketingale 'adha kuda vittu vaikka matingala' nu...

 

[Goodie]

@Goodie

Oru proposal solalam...

En college mate oda home town avar... oru time avanka veetuku ponapo , intro kuduthu pesi friend anar... nanum media la irukar nu nalla pesunen..

oru nal suthi valachu fone la ketar yepdi ena nambi fone la pesura.... mutual friend thana nan unaku... avlo nambikaya apdi nu...

nambikai en friend mela... avar enaku thapana aala intro kuduka matar nu sonen... ipdiye anaiku jasthi pesitom ...

suppose love senja accept senjuvinkla nu ketar avlo trust iruntha nu ketaar...

Athepde seya mudiyum one year ninka enaku junior... sari varathu apdiye elam okie nalum.. ithu enoda reply... ipdiye argument anaiku... but comedy ah iruthuchu

ipo kuda dear senior nu gift varum book la signature potu ....
azhagana handwriting avaruku...

Intha vishayam en friend ku solanumnu thonavey ila ithuvarai... junior oda proposal interesting nu ninaikiren.. boring ah kuda iruklam lol

So ungala vida junior ah love panna koodathunu mudivoda irukeenga, apdithana?

 

[Nilaa]

So ungala vida junior ah love panna koodathunu mudivoda irukeenga, apdithana?

@Goodie

Yes... dominate seinumnu thonum namala vida age kami nu.. or avaruku thonalam apde .. girl kuti ah iruntha than nala irukum... ithu enoda opinion than...

 

[Goodie]

Law says equal parts. Men get most part laam andha kaalam. Ipolaam neraiyya peruku awareness iruku. Ellam court case pottu sari samamaa vaangidranga

Law says equal part. But do women get the equal part?No. Atleast na paatha neraiya peruku awareness illanu solradha vida, property ketu sangada pada venamnu othungura women thaan jaasthi. Apadi yoskira women ahkooda poi kelunu anupi vaikira husbandsum jaasthi ya irukaanga.

Indha concept laam vechu ippo mega serials kuda edukkaradhilla.

Yen edukaradhu illana, oru awareness kaga

Husband support eh illama Canteen business vechu oru lady develop aagra alavuku avangale upgrade aagitanga

Idhu women empowerment ah kaarudhu.

Lol, appo Husband apdingaradhu posting ah? So unga karuthu padi, marriage ku apram Ella responsibilities um husband mela?

Posting kidaiyadhu. Na. Enna solla varena. If those guys who wants the property from their in laws, apram husband nra porupu edhukunu than ketkuren. Ellamae ponnoda appa Amma than seiyanumna, husband edhuku? And you know what?! Given the opportunity, women can do much more greater things than men.

Ellam responsibilitiesum husband enga seiraanga?? Work panra Perla na than ellathayum paathukuren nu thalakanathula suthitu thirivaanga. And if you aks then which section their kids are in, they would blink.

Adhey madiri, marriage ku aprama Husband veetula irundhu edhayume edhirpaaka matangala girls?

Husband oda love, care and support irundha enaku therinji husband veetla irundhu edhaiyumae ethir paaka maatanga.

Suppose, ivanga husband ah kandukkama, matha children families ah nalla gavanichukitta, summava viduvaanga?

I don't understand this

Apdi ketta dhan, 'assets kaga dhan kalyanam pannikitangalaa' nu kelvi varume

Ippadi sila per irukaangala. Btw yen ketkureenga? Kudutha vaanginkonga. Kudukalayae neenga seinga. Athuvum mudiyalayae summa irunga. Edhuku kurai sollanum

Naa sonnadhu, oru family la son and daughter irundha, Jewels always go to the daughter.

Adhe family la, oru sila jewels sonnkubthan poganumnu iruku.

And sila families naa pathrukken, assets pirikarappo, those jewels won't be taken into account. It is jewels + 50% of other assets to the daughter

Ungaluku unga prechanai. Ippo jewel la pangu thara maatingiraanganu varatha padureenga illaiya?!

Idhu oru sentiment. It is generally viewed as a crime if the guy talk about his mother's jewels. Neengale kuda ketingale 'adha kuda vittu vaikka matingala' nu...

Crime lam illa. Indha law vararthuku munnadi, all property goes to the son and only the jewels will be given to their daughters. And ippo neenga ketkura maari ellam ketka aarambichita athukum viraivil law kondu vandhuduvaanga. Varutha padatheenga

 

[Goodie]

@Nilaa

Unga life la periya aabathu edhavadhu sandhichi irukeengala and Amma appa kitta sollama eppadi samalicheenga?