Hot Seat: Let's Get Candid

[Agnii]

Law says equal part. But do women get the equal part?No. Atleast na paatha neraiya peruku awareness illanu solradha vida, property ketu sangada pada venamnu othungura women thaan jaasthi. Apadi yoskira women ahkooda poi kelunu anupi vaikira husbandsum jaasthi ya irukaanga.



Yen edukaradhu illana, oru awareness kaga

Idhu women empowerment ah kaarudhu.

Posting kidaiyadhu. Na. Enna solla varena. If those guys who wants the property from their in laws, apram husband nra porupu edhukunu than ketkuren. Ellamae ponnoda appa Amma than seiyanumna, husband edhuku? And you know what?! Given the opportunity, women can do much more greater things than men.

Ellam responsibilitiesum husband enga seiraanga?? Work panra Perla na than ellathayum paathukuren nu thalakanathula suthitu thirivaanga. And if you aks then which section their kids are in, they would blink.



Husband oda love, care and support irundha enaku therinji husband veetla irundhu edhaiyumae ethir paaka maatanga.

I don't understand this

Ippadi sila per irukaangala. Btw yen ketkureenga? Kudutha vaanginkonga. Kudukalayae neenga seinga. Athuvum mudiyalayae summa irunga. Edhuku kurai sollanum

Adhe family la, oru sila jewels sonnkubthan poganumnu iruku.

Ungaluku unga prechanai. Ippo jewel la pangu thara maatingiraanganu varatha padureenga illaiya?!

Crime lam illa. Indha law vararthuku munnadi, all property goes to the son and only the jewels will be given to their daughters. And ippo neenga ketkura maari ellam ketka aarambichita athukum viraivil law kondu vandhuduvaanga. Varutha padatheenga

Lol, naan edhum ketkala and none of them were my personal opinion. Naa general ah dhan sollitu irukken

And law is not a solution for everything. For example, naa oru scenario soldren. Family A la oru daughter and oru son. Family B la only one Son. Just for discussion, lets say both the families are identical in terms of networth. They have only one own house each, of same value.

Now the girl and guy get married and the girl moves to Family B house. Orey paiyyan apdingradhunala, the house comes to Son.

Ippo family A la irukka paiyyan marriage pandran, but andha ponnu ku endha assets um illa. Or let's say, Avan kalyaname pannikala and prefers to be single.

Ippo avanoda sister vandhu, indha veetula enakkum 50% venum, idha sell panni enakku paadhi kudu or, andha amount ah enakku kudu nu ketkalaama? As per law, what she is demanding is right.

But isn't this creating an inequality in the society. Brother and Sister rendu perum avanga marriage varaikum equal socioeconomic status la irundhanga. But indha law padi, the girl is getting richer

 

[Nilaa]

@Nilaa

Unga life la periya aabathu edhavadhu sandhichi irukeengala and Amma appa kitta sollama eppadi samalicheenga?

@Goodie

Sila aabathukal vanthiruku... escaped... athula parents kita solathathu 3 iruku... 2 matum I can share....

First incident :

Nan work senja idam oru forest area...
after 6 pm anka irukrathu safety ila. Bus la than poven...travel time jasthe apram animals area nu rare ah bike use panirukan..

Oru nal bus varla...boss also out of station. Car kuda ila apo anka. iruta arambichiruchu... elephant varum nu enaku nala therium... appa ku call senja next antha work ku sure ah vida matanka... already sanda potutu than join panunen... nama uyir inaiku oru elephant mithichu pogum... ini yepdi elarayum paka porom nu pala sithanaikal...

Apram epdiyo oru tourist group vanthu, city la dropped. oru vazhiya veetuku vanthutan... veetla solavey ila...


second incident :

Another incident ipo oru one week munadi....

I used taxi.. antha driver ku Age jasthe irukum... ola taxi... night 7 ayduchu .. thaniya vanthen... Ella route um nala therium.. and Google location, ola share parents ku pogum...

Konja nerathula vulgur ah songs play seya he started... head ache konjam off senjukonka nu request ah than keten.. sound kurachutu again athey vela... slow ah drive panunaan... fone la yarkitayo pesitey vanthan inka oru trip nu area solitu...

Night la sariya face pakama yeriten...rating kuda check seila hurry la...

patha rapist madhre oru mugam vihaarama oru parvai...

support nu app la help ketalum, avanka evlo nerathula vanthu help seya mudiyum. Antha idathil vera cab um kidaika possibilities theriyala... veetla message anupuna romba bayapaduvanka...

evlo news padikrom kekrom ... cha ipdiya matanum nu oru pathatam life la first time...

Apram amma ku oru cal pani intha idathula irukan map sariya kaatuthaa nu chuma pechu kuduthutu vanthen ethachum pesanumnu ....

Apram avan road sari ila adhu ithu nu solitu oru valiya veetu pakama vanthachu.. apram than uyir vantha madhri irunthuchu. Gpay kuda seila ...irangi oditen... appa veila vanthu pay panunanka... parents ku solatha vishayam ithu...

 

[Goodie]

Lol, naan edhum ketkala and none of them were my personal opinion. Naa general ah dhan sollitu irukken

And law is not a solution for everything. For example, naa oru scenario soldren. Family A la oru daughter and oru son. Family B la only one Son. Just for discussion, lets say both the families are identical in terms of networth. They have only one own house each, of same value.

Now the girl and guy get married and the girl moves to Family B house. Orey paiyyan apdingradhunala, the house comes to Son.

Ippo family A la irukka paiyyan marriage pandran, but andha ponnu ku endha assets um illa. Or let's say, Avan kalyaname pannikala and prefers to be single.

Ippo avanoda sister vandhu, indha veetula enakkum 50% venum, idha sell panni enakku paadhi kudu or, andha amount ah enakku kudu nu ketkalaama? As per law, what she is demanding is right.

But isn't this creating an inequality in the society. Brother and Sister rendu perum avanga marriage varaikum equal socioeconomic status la irundhanga. But indha law padi, the girl is getting richer

Enaku property mela endha interest um illa. Just for discussion kaga than solren.
House B la iruka paiyanuku thana pogudhu property? Idhu how it's related to the girl?? She is the wife nu vachikitaalum, appo wife ku vara property ku husband Kum thana pangu iruku.

The guy in the house A la marriage panna, he also gets the property for him wife right?? Illa adhu wife property na, even in the above case athu husband property thana?

Laws ellam vidunga. Indha law varadhuku munnadi enna situation?

Let's say House A has two sons
House B la oru son and oru daughter
House C la only daughter

House A iruka elder son gets married to the daughter of House B

House A la iruka younger son gets married to the daughter of House C

House A la iruka property is divided between two sons
House B property goes to the son
House C la son illa, so it goes to the daughter who is the wife of younger son of House A

Now the younger son of House A gets more property. Ippo elder son of House A torture pannuvan, go get your share from your brother of House B. Idhuku enna solution?

 

[Agnii]

Enaku property mela endha interest um illa. Just for discussion kaga than solren.
House B la iruka paiyanuku thana pogudhu property? Idhu how it's related to the girl?? She is the wife nu vachikitaalum, appo wife ku vara property ku husband Kum thana pangu iruku.

The guy in the house A la marriage panna, he also gets the property for him wife right?? Illa adhu wife property na, even in the above case athu husband property thana?

Laws ellam vidunga. Indha law varadhuku munnadi enna situation?

Let's say House A has two sons
House B la oru son and oru daughter
House C la only daughter

House A iruka elder son gets married to the daughter of House B

House A la iruka younger son gets married to the daughter of House C

House A la iruka property is divided between two sons
House B property goes to the son
House C la son illa, so it goes to the daughter who is the wife of younger son of House A

Now the younger son of House A gets more property. Ippo elder son of House A torture pannuvan, go get your share from your brother of House B. Idhuku enna solution?

Badhil solla therilana ipdi puriyadha madiri kelvi kettu kozhappi vida vendiyadhu

Also, asusual naa ketta kelvikkum neenga sonna badhilukum sambandhame illa. Ennoda question ah read pannunga, apdiye unga answer um read pannitu vaanga

 

[Goodie]

Badhil solla therilana ipdi puriyadha madiri kelvi kettu kozhappi vida vendiyadhu

Also, asusual naa ketta kelvikkum neenga sonna badhilukum sambandhame illa. Ennoda question ah read pannunga, apdiye unga answer um read pannitu vaanga

Samandham illa.a eppadi??

I just you another scenario for you to understand. Neenga one more time porumaiya read pannitu pathil sollunga

Seri property ellam vidunga.

Yen oru husband property ellam edhuku, na irukenu solla manasu varala?! Properly irundha mattum wife ah nalla paathupeengala enna?
Idhula love eppadi varum, be it a husband or wife

 

[Goodie]

@Nilaa
Hindu succession act of 2005 padi, after the death of a father, his property goes to his children and wife.

A question from a kid, " atheppadi women mattum getting share from her father as well as her husband"

Idhuku unga pathil enna?

Indha kid neenga than ninaikiren @Agnii

Seri indha question unga kid unga kitta keta enna bathil solluveenga

 

[Agnii]

Let's say House A has two sons
House B la oru son and oru daughter
House C la only daughter

House A iruka elder son gets married to the daughter of House B

House A la iruka younger son gets married to the daughter of House C

House A la iruka property is divided between two sons
House B property goes to the son
House C la son illa, so it goes to the daughter who is the wife of younger son of House A

Now the younger son of House A gets more property. Ippo elder son of House A torture pannuvan, go get your share from your brother of House B. Idhuku enna solution?

Idhan naanum soldren. Common sense.
Son and Daughter laam thaandi, marriage ku apram endha family ku enna thevai nu paarkanum.

Oru son ku edhukku rendu veedu? Naa ennoda assets la irundhu rendu perukkume equal ah dhan koduppen, irrespective of their socioeconomic status apdinu soldradhula enaku logic eh puriyala...

Ellorukum equal ah kodukkaradhuku Peru equality ya? Illa oru society la ellorum equal status la vaazhdradhuku Peru equality ya?

Family la ye ivlo inequality vandha, idhey dhan society, country la reflect aagum. That's all your honour

 

[Goodie]

Idhan naanum soldren. Common sense.
Son and Daughter laam thaandi, marriage ku apram endha family ku enna thevai nu paarkanum.

Oru son ku edhukku rendu veedu? Naa ennoda assets la irundhu rendu perukkume equal ah dhan koduppen, irrespective of their socioeconomic status apdinu soldradhula enaku logic eh puriyala...

Ellorukum equal ah kodukkaradhuku Peru equality ya? Illa oru society la ellorum equal status la vaazhdradhuku Peru equality ya?

Family la ye ivlo inequality vandha, idhey dhan society, country la reflect aagum. That's all your honour

Idhuku solution idhaanu solla mudiyadhu.

And idhu inequality nu eppadi solreenganu theriyala, coz ellarum ore maari irukuradhu illa and their financial background differs. So idhellam yosichi, Thani law kondu Vara mudiyadhu.

Oru society la ellarum equal ah vazha chance illa. Oruthar romba kasta pattu property sekalam, inoruthar somberi ya irundhutu property illama irukalam.

An intelligent person, opportunity illathathala perusa achieve pannnama irukalam and oru illiterate kidaicha opportunity lam use panni periya aala vara chance iruku. Ithellam irukula.
Ippadi oru oru family oda situation development irukula. Idha edhuvum paakama equality inequality nu eppadi pirika mudiyum

 

[Agnii]

Idhuku solution idhaanu solla mudiyadhu.

And idhu inequality nu eppadi solreenganu theriyala, coz ellarum ore maari irukuradhu illa and their financial background differs. So idhellam yosichi, Thani law kondu Vara mudiyadhu.

Oru society la ellarum equal ah vazha chance illa. Oruthar romba kasta pattu property sekalam, inoruthar somberi ya irundhutu property illama irukalam.

An intelligent person, opportunity illathathala perusa achieve pannnama irukalam and oru illiterate kidaicha opportunity lam use panni periya aala vara chance iruku. Ithellam irukula.
Ippadi oru oru family oda situation development irukula. Idha edhuvum paakama equality inequality nu eppadi pirika mudiyum

Ofcourse ellorum equal ah vaazha mudiyadhu. Depends on individuals capabilities. But, ellorukum equal ah kodukalaam

Take the case of Anil Ambani and Mukesh Ambani. Present day la, yaaru romba wealthy ya irukkanganu naa solla thevaiyilla. But Dhirubhai Ambani assets pirichappo, he gave equal. Infact Anil Ambani ku better ah koduthaarunu kuda sollalaam. Coz avaruku kodutha businesses ellame andha time la romba successful businesses.

So, if you have 2 kids, give Rahul to both. It is upto them to develop Rahul Dravid or Rahul Gandhi out of it

 

[Agnii]

Yen oru husband property ellam edhuku, na irukenu solla manasu varala?! Properly irundha mattum wife ah nalla paathupeengala enna?
Idhula love eppadi varum, be it a husband or wife

This is totally out of context. Don't know where it is coming from, lol

 

[Agnii]

Indha kid neenga than ninaikiren @Agnii

Seri indha question unga kid unga kitta keta enna bathil solluveenga

Nila tag pannirkaradhu Needu va

 

[Nilaa]

@Goodie I tag

@Needu

 

[Goodie]

This is totally out of context. Don't know where it is coming from, lol

Out of context eppadi. Neenga sonathu na sonnen

 

[Goodie]

Nila tag pannirkaradhu Needu va

Answer panna theriyala nu sollunga

 

[Goodie]

@Goodie I tag

@Needu

Will ask @Needu whenever he is ready

 

[Agnii]

Answer panna theriyala nu sollunga

Indha thread rules ah padinga... Rules potta mattum pathaadhu, adhai follow pannanum...

 

[Goodie]

A

Indha thread rules ah padinga... Rules potta mattum pathaadhu, adhai follow pannanum...

ppo ivaloe neram neenga pesitu irukum bodhu, andha rules nyabagam illaiya?!

 

[Agnii]

A

ppo ivaloe neram neenga pesitu irukum bodhu, andha rules nyabagam illaiya?!

Ivlo nerama namma Q&A pannalaiye... It was only a discussion... Rules la discuss panna kudadhu nu illa

 

[Balan72]

risk eduka koodathu.... ithu oru ponnoda athum en friend oda life ...

en friend kita ellam soliduven. ava future enaku mukyam. decision ava edukatum nu vitruven.

Smart and responsible way to react. By informing the facts, you avoid the guilt of concealing the fact about the groom; By letting her decide on her own, you empower her decide her own future. Liked your answer vennilaa.

 

[Balan72]

Therinju vila kudathu.

Absolutely. That sums it all and thats the substance.
Invitation adichom koottam koodiruchu nu aiyokkiya payaloda vaazhkai nadatha accept pannuratha? Adhum therinje? Thats hell hole.