இந்த topic பெருசா சுவாரசியம் இல்லை, எல்லாரும் ஒரே போன்ற கருத்தை தான் சொல்லி இருக்கோம் சோ இதை இத்துடன் முடிந்து கொள்வோம்..
Ennudaiya karuththu Romba simple..
chat room is just like Real life..
Real life la not everyone are Loyal, we have to choose the right ones..
in the same way it's our job to find the real one, it will take time.. innaiku chat la parthu nalaiku phone la pesi, naalaanaiku meet panni, friendship kandupidikanum nu ninaicha kashtam..
we need time.. plenty of time..
real life la elarum potruka Mask vida chat life la Masks athigam..
Reason:
Nerla parthu pesumbothu
i miss u
i love u
ithellam easy ya solida mudiyathu unless we actually mean it
but in chat room for some ppl it is very easy to say the things which they dont actually mean..
Like @ilakiyaa sis said hurt pandrathukuney silar varuvanga, naama than careful ah irukanum..
namma idam kudukaama nobody can hurt us.. let's not give them the space to hurt us..
like @Argus @Aadhini @Ohmylove @Mathangi @aaa2zzz sis said, ofcourse we can find good people here.. but namma risk
@Aadhini ur experience was awesome da, yes avlo nalla annan thangachi kuda inga kidaipaanga, it's true..
kandipa ella relationship um heart breaking illaama irukathu like @Agnii said "heart breaking irukum".. real life um apdi thaaney??!!
Chat la Trustworthy people irukkaanga apdingarathuku simple example
naama than Unmai thaana??!!
see we are loyal to each other sharing our views, giving shoulders to each other.. i still remember the days where in old forum @Vanathi @Mathangi @Argus @Aadhini were helping each other during tough times and naangalam friends aanathey forum la than chatting kuda ila, just by sharing positive words we became friends
Example:
innoru example nan sola virumburen..
nan first first chat room vanthathu teen age la.. apo enakoru thambi kadachan friend ah , just a few months younger than me still calls me akka, it's been ten years we are still in touch when one of my family members fell ill he came along with his maa and grand maa to meet us.. sweet la.. he invited me for his wedding, and today even his spouse knows me well so it's true that we can fine good soul here
All these ten years i have come across many beautiful person, but still, i do have one bitter memory which still haunts me sometimes, just like real life some may hurt us, but some will leave their footprints in our life to cherish forever ..
Not everyone are passing clouds
we can find Loyal, Truthful, trust worthy people in chat but at our own risk
Sweet words can be good to ears
Never fall for them.. take time to read a person.. intention can clearly be read by the words they use..
Being wise would help us
Siblings and friendship bond is fine..
But if u r looking for love
Never attach strings that easily, give more time..
Texting is a bad way of communication
it is completely different from talking to a person in person.. so it depends on how well we select people
ungaludaiya Chat natpugal thodara vendum, naamum endrum ipadiye nanbargalaa oru kudumbamaa irupom
NANDRI VANAKAM